ch. 1. Take back your marriage
ch. 2. Resisting consumer marriage
ch. 3. Don't lose your marriage to your kids
ch. 4. Take back time for your marriage
ch. 5. Resist family and friends who would undermine your marriage
ch. 6. Resist therapist who threaten your marriage
ch. 7. Preventing unnecessary divorce
ch. 8. Intentional marriage : connection rituals in everyday life
ch. 9. Intentional marriage : love rituals
10. Intentional marriage : anniversaries and other special occasions
ch. 11. Every marriage supported by a community
ch. 12. Taking action for your marriage.