From adventure to captivity : why the quest for security saps erotic vitality

More intimacy, less sex : love seeks closeness, but desire needs distance

The pitfalls of modern intimacy : talk is not the only avenue to closeness

Democracy versus hot sex : desire and egalitarianism don't play by the same rules

Can do! : the Protestant work ethic takes on the degradation of desire

Sex is dirty; save it for someone you love : when Puritanism and hedonism collide

Erotic blueprints : tell me how you were loved, and I'll tell you how to make love

Parenthood : when three threatens two

Of flesh and fantasy : in the sanctuary of the erotic mind we find a direct route to pleasure

The shadow of the third : rethinking fidelity

Putting the x back in sex : bringing the erotic home.